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Compassion and Consideration

Tip – Take time during this coming holiday season to visit a friend in need.

During the upcoming holiday season, as our thoughts turn to family and friends, may I suggest we consider visiting someone we know who might need a visit. Let me share a story of an experience I recently had.

When I was growing up, my Mom encouraged me to try new things. One day, she asked me if I wanted a tape recorder. Since I loved recording and listening to music, I told her I did. My Mom then left my room without any explanation.

A few weeks later Mom came to me with a large gray and white case. It was heavy and bigger than most suitcases. She gave me the case and said, “Here’s your accordion.” I don’t know how I confused tape recorder with accordion, but my life was about to change.

Mom arranged for me to take accordion lessons from a neighbor, who I will call Maria. Maria was born in Pocatello, but her family was from Spain. Mom set up a schedule for me to practice every morning at 6:30 a.m. and have a lesson once a week at Maria’s home.

Holding my accordion case with my right hand and leaning to my left to get the case off the ground, I carried my accordion up Maria’s sidewalk to her front door for my lessons. Each week, Maria gave me songs to play and practice. Her favorite song was “Lady of Spain.” Even at my young age, I sensed that it had a special meaning to her. Here are a couple of lines from Lady of Spain.

“Lady of Spain, I adore you.
Right from the night I first saw you.”

I met with Maria for my lessons for a few years. Then one day it ended. I don’t remember when or why I stopped taking lessons. I suspect my mom recognized that my heart wasn’t in it—all I wanted to do was play basketball. Even though I hadn’t learned to play the accordion very well, I had made friends with Maria.

Marriage, family, church, career—I didn’t see Maria often as the years passed. I reconnected with her a few years ago. As an Estate Planning Attorney, Maria came to me to have me review her Trust. I didn’t see her after that for a few more years. I often had the thought that I should visit Maria, but I was busy with my law practice, focused on getting things done, and just never made the visit.

As Maria got older, she hired a friend of mine as a caregiver. My friend called me one day to tell me it was Maria’s 95th birthday. Maria only lived a few blocks from my office, and I was free that afternoon, so I decided to visit her and wish her happy birthday.

When I entered her home, Maria was sitting in a recliner, with a blanket over her. A walker stood near her chair. Maria’s face lit up, and we talked. After a while, our conversation turned to when I had taken accordion lessons from her as a boy. As we talked, Maria asked me, “Will you play Lady of Spain on your accordion for me?” How could I turn her down? If that is what Maria wanted, I was determined to do it for her. As I left her home, I thought maybe I could learn it by Christmas,
and it could be a Christmas present.

I went to the music store and purchased the sheet music for Lady of Spain. I opened my accordion case and took out my accordion and put it on. After all those years, it still felt familiar as I put the worn leather straps over my shoulders and placed my left hand on the base notes and my right hand on the piano keys.

I quickly realized that I had no idea how to play the accordion or read sheet music. I tried watching YouTube videos but decided if I was going to play Lady of Spain I was going to have to find a teacher. I asked around but couldn’t find any accordion teachers in Southeast Idaho.

Three months had passed since Maria’s birthday, and I hadn’t made much progress. I debated going to Maria and explaining to her that I tried, but I just couldn’t learn Lady of Spain. Then, an idea came to me. I needed an accordion teacher; Maria taught the accordion. Maybe she would be willing to give me lessons. I visited Maria and asked her if she would be willing to teach me how to play Lady of Spain on the accordion. Maria readily accepted.

I began taking lessons once again with Maria in January 2024—sixty years since I had taken lessons from her as a young boy. I walked to her front door for my first lesson with my accordion case in hand. I opened the front door and called, “Maria it’s Tom. I’m here for my lesson.”

Each week I met with Maria and would learn a little more about the notes and keys. I began playing parts of Lady of Spain first with the base notes, then the piano keys, and then both together.

I could see that Maria enjoyed my visits, and I was glad to do something that brightened her day. When I told Maria it was time for me to leave, she would always ask “Do you have to go? I met with Maria once a week from January to July. Even though I didn’t practice much in between our lessons, each lesson I would learn a little more, and I was getting better. I told Maria during one lesson that I would like to see my Mom because I knew she was in heaven smiling. Maria replied, “Your Mom wanted you to play the accordion.”

By July, I was starting to be able to play Lady of Spain. During my lesson, Maria would clap out the beat and count “One, two, three, one, two, three” and hum along as I played.

After one of my lessons, I thought to myself, if I really practiced this week, I could play Lady of Spain all the way through for Maria like I promised her. The next week, I practiced 45 minutes 3 times before my lesson.

When I went for my lesson, I was excited to play Lady of Spain for Maria. After getting everything arranged, I began playing. It had a few rough spots, but I played Lady of Spain all the way through. I had kept my promise!

After I finished, Maria said, “Let’s do it again!” She counted out the beat and sang along as I played. I went home that night and told my wife that I had played Lady of Spain for Maria, however, she had seemed more frail than usual.

The next week when I went to Maria’s house, she wasn’t in her chair. She was lying in her bed. Her care provider told me she had gone downhill quickly and was dying.

I waited until I had a chance to be with Maria alone. I held her hand and leaned close to her ear and said, “Maria, this is Tom; Lady of Spain, I adore you.” A faint smile crossed her lips, and I said goodbye. A couple of days later Maria passed away.

I had a lot of fun this past year meeting with Maria and giving her something to look forward to. My visits with Maria did as much for me as they did for her.

View our “Senior’s Guide to a Well-Planned Future” on our website! Packer Elder Care Law – with you for life!

Tom Packer is an Elder Law Attorney serving all Southeast Idaho. As part of his law practice, Tom offers Life Care Planning to deal with the challenges created by long-term illness, disability and incapacity. If you have a question about a Senior’s legal, financial or healthcare needs, please call us.

October 2024

Community Spouse Resource Allowance

Tip: Don’t’ impoverish your spouse if you go on Medicaid.

You may have heard that you can only have $2,000.00 and still qualify for Medicaid to pay for long-term care. While this is true for individuals applying for Medicaid, if the person applying for Medicaid is married, Federal law allows the spouse remaining at home to retain a significant amount of the couple’s assets so that he or she doesn’t become impoverished when the other spouse goes into
a care facility.

If a person needs but can’t pay for the cost of long-term care, in addition to filing a Medicaid application for the spouse going into a facility, a couple should file a Community Spouse Resource Allowance (CRSA), which allows the stay-at-home spouse to retain certain assets. For the following discussion on the CRSA, I am designating the stay-at-home spouse the wife and the Medicaid applicant, the spouse going into a facility, the husband.

Medicaid categorizes resources as exempt assets and countable assets. Exempt
assets include the following:
• Primary residence
• Personal household goods
• One vehicle per spouse
• Prepaid funeral
• IRAs if the RMD is being taken

Exempt assets are not counted toward the $2,000 asset limit to qualify for Medicaid. Countable assets include pretty much everything else including the following:
• Cash
• Savings and checking accounts
• Cash value of insurance policies

The total value of the countable assets of an individual cannot exceed the $2,000 asset limit.
In 2024, in addition to the exempt assets, the wife can retain 50% of the couple’s countable assets, up to a maximum of $154,140. If the non-applicant’s share of the assets is under $30,828, 100% of the assets, up to $30,828 can be retained by the wife.

To be eligible for Medicaid, the husband’s share of the countable assets cannot exceed $2,000. If he has more than $2,000, he cannot give money away (except to a disabled child); however, he can use the money to pay off the couple’s debts, pay off their mortgage, make repairs to their home, upgrade their car, prepay their funerals, pay legal expenses and pay for his care.

One final point, now that the couple’s assets have been transferred to the wife, if by chance she dies before the husband, all the wife’s assets will go back to him making him ineligible for Medicaid. To avoid this, the wife, may make a Will that includes a Special Needs’ Trust for her husband. Then if the wife dies before the husband, the assets do not go to him but are held in a Trust to be used for his benefit. In this way he remains eligible for Medicaid.

View our “Senior’s Guide to a Well-Planned Future” on our website! Packer Elder Care Law – with you for life!

Tom Packer is an Elder Law Attorney serving all Southeast Idaho. As part of his law practice, Tom offers Life Care Planning to deal with the challenges created by long-term illness, disability and incapacity. If you have a question about a Senior’s legal, financial or healthcare needs, please call us.

September 2024

Having a Well-Planned Future

Tip: Here are 10 important things you can do.

Most of us understand that estate planning is important, even though we frequently put it off because it is hard to think about leaving our loved ones. Still, having a plan for the future is essential and can prevent family conflicts.

When we talk about estate planning, usually we are referring to how we are going to distribute our property after we have passed. However, it is also essential, before we become incapacitated, that we sign a Financial Power of Attorney and a Durable Power of Attorney for Health Care to give a trusted person authority to help us with our finances and to make Medical decisions for us if we cannot make them for ourselves. By completing these documents, our family will know our wishes, and we can avoid the need for costly guardianship and conservatorship proceedings.

Here are 10 things you can do to plan for your future:
1. Write a Will naming a Personal Representative for your estate and indicate to whom your estate is to go rather than have it go to the persons designated by Idaho law.
2. Prepare an advance medical directive and a healthcare power of attorney naming an agent to make medical decisions for you if you are unable to make them for yourself.
3. Prepare a financial power of attorney giving a trusted person the authority to make decisions if you need help managing your finances.
4. For married couples, sign a deed that creates a right of survivorship on real property—such as your house—which will avoid the need to probate on the passing of the first spouse.
5. Make a tangible personal property list indicating to whom you would like your property to go, such as heirlooms, furniture, guns or jewelry, etc.
6. Name guardians or conservators for minor or incapacitated children.
7. If applicable, set up a Special Needs Trust for an incapacitated child to supplement their needs without affecting their eligibility for Social Security and Medicaid.
8. Make sure you have named beneficiaries for your life insurance policies, 401Ks, and IRAs.
9. In some cases, set up Pay on Death on your checking and savings accounts.
10. If you own a business, make sure it has an orderly succession plan.

In conclusion, by establishing goals and having a plan in place, we will be prepared for whatever the future holds for us.

For more information, click on the link “A Senior’s Guide To A Well-Planned Future” to view a fun booklet – it will bring up an easy to understand, colorful booklet full of helpful information.

View our “Senior’s Guide to a Well-Planned Future” on our website! Packer Elder Care Law – with you for life!

Tom Packer is an Elder Law Attorney serving all Southeast Idaho. As part of his law practice, Tom offers Life Care Planning to deal with the challenges created by long-term illness, disability and incapacity. If you have a question about a Senior’s legal, financial or healthcare needs, please call us.

July 2024

Tangible Personal Property List

Use a tangible personal property list to clearly specify who you want to receive your personal property.

Idaho Code Section 15-2-513 expressly permits the use of a statement separate from your Will to dispose of non-business, tangible personal property upon your death. If you want to use such a separate written statement rather than itemize the disposition of tangible personal property in your Will, you should know and follow the requirements set forth below:

1. No duplication. The separate written statement should not include items already specifically disposed of by you in your Will.

2. Assets that may be disposed of by written statement. Common examples of property that may be disposed of include personal effects, jewelry, family heirlooms, furniture, antiques, artwork, books, household items, sporting equipment, automobiles, etc.

3. Assets that may not be disposed of by written statement. A separate written statement cannot be used to dispose of money, evidence of indebtedness, documents of title, interests in real property, securities, or property used in a trade or business.

4. Date and sign written statement. Each page of the statement should be dated and must be signed by you.

5. Clearly describe each item. Clearly describe each item so that it is easily identified and not confused with another similar item.

6. Designation of beneficiary (devisee). Each beneficiary (also referred to as a “devisee”) should be identified by his or her proper name and relationship to you. The address of the beneficiary should be added if the beneficiary is not closely related to you so that proper identification is
assured.

7. Alternate Beneficiary. You may wish to consider providing for an alternative beneficiary if the first-named beneficiary does not survive you, although this is not necessary.

8. Change in designation of beneficiary or property. You may change the devisees or property designated in the separate written statement from time to time or revise or revoke the entire statement. Changes should be made only by preparing a new statement patterned after the original form. The old statement should be destroyed. Changes should never be made by alternation on the face of an executed statement; your intent will inevitably be unclear.

9. Retain written statement in safe place. The separate written statement should be kept in a safe place where it can be easily found, preferably with your original Will.

10. Notice to Personal Representative. We recommend that you notify the personal representative named in your Will regarding the location of the written statement.

11. Periodic review. The written statement should be reviewed periodically and kept current.

Families often fight more over mom’s wedding ring or dad’s hunting rifle than they do over the distribution of a 401K. A tangible personal property list is often overlooked but is an important document to prevent disputes between family members when settling an estate.

View our “Senior’s Guide to a Well-Planned Future” on our website! Packer Elder Care Law – with you for life!

Tom Packer is an Elder Law Attorney serving all Southeast Idaho. As part of his law practice, Tom offers Life Care Planning to deal with the challenges created by long-term illness, disability and incapacity. If you have a question about a Senior’s legal, financial or healthcare needs, please call us.

June 2024

Provide for Your Pets in a Will or Trust

Tip – When I pass away, who will care for my pets?

Here is an amusing quote by Winston Churchill: “I like pigs. Dogs look up to us. Cats look down on us. Pigs treat us as equals.”

On a more serious note, pets offer us companionship and bring joy into our lives. In return, we want to make sure they are cared for if we become incapacitated or after we have passed away.

There are several options for placing pets, including family members, friends, the Idaho Humane Society, and other foster, adoption, and Rescue Programs. Local organizations like the Bannock Humane Society will strive to find a good home for your pets if no other options are available.

If it becomes difficult during your lifetime to care for your pets, you can prepare a “Pet Power of Attorney” which gives someone the authority to care for your pet if you become incapacitated or if you are gone on a trip.

If you plan to leave your pet with an individual after you have passed away, you should discuss with the prospective caretaker if they are willing to care for your pet. If they accept, you can leave your pet to that person in your Will. You may also want to leave some money or other pet care items to that person, asking the person to use the money and items to care for your pet. Your request expresses your desires, but it is nonbinding on your caretaker. You cannot leave money or other property directly to an animal.

A more complex and expensive method to provide for your pet is to set up a Pet Trust. Idaho Code § 15-7-601 allows for a Trust to be set up for a pet. Funds can be put into the Trust with instructions that are binding as to how the money is to be used and how your pet is to be cared for.

If you want to provide for your pet’s future, consider leaving specific instructions with your Will on how to care for your pet. Your pet has taken good care of you, so make sure your pet is taken care of after you are gone.

An example of a pet care instruction sheet is attached below.

View our “Senior’s Guide to a Well-Planned Future” on our website! Packer Elder Care Law – with you for life!

Tom Packer is an Elder Law Attorney serving all Southeast Idaho. As part of his law practice, Tom offers Life Care Planning to deal with the challenges created by long-term illness, disability and incapacity. If you have a question about a Senior’s legal, financial or healthcare needs, please call us.

May 2024

 

Wills in Idaho

Tip – Idaho now recognizes four types of wills.

Idaho recognizes the following four types of wills:

• First, a paper will that is signed by the testator or testatrix (the legal names for male and female persons signing a will respectively) and signed by two persons each of whom witnessed the signing or the testator’s acknowledgement of the signature of the will.

• Second, a holographic will, which is a will with the signature and the material provisions written in the handwriting of the testator/testatrix. A holographic will may but does not have to be witnessed or notarized to be valid.

• Third, a will written in another state that complies with the laws of the state where it was written.

• Fourth, Idaho recently passed the Electronic Wills Act recognizing electronic wills and setting forth the rules for making an electronic will valid.

Any one of these four types of wills will be accepted by Idaho Court for probate.

Here are mistakes some people make when doing their own will. They print a will off the internet but don’t have it witnessed properly, or they do not clearly express to whom they want their property to go.

When writing a holographic will, some people dictate the will and have another person write it for them. Remember, the material provisions and the signature of a holographic will must be in the testator/ testatrix’s handwriting, or it will be invalid.

If you are considering writing a holographic will, keep your bequest (the disposition of property in a will) simple. If your will is ambiguous the court may not be able to carry out your wishes the way that you intended. Also, make sure to nominate who you want to be your personal representative.

When people live in another state and have property in that state and in Idaho, or if they move to Idaho after writing their will in the other state, Idaho will recognize their will and admit it to probate.

Finally, in March 2023 the Idaho Uniform Electronic Wills Act was enacted. The requirements for the validity of electronic wills are similar to paper wills but with some differences to account for the electronic signing and witnessing. An electronic will can be signed by the testator/testatrix and witnessed by the witnesses electronically, if everyone can see and hear the signing—presumably through a zoom meeting. The will must also be a tamper-evident electronic record to assure
that it has not been tampered with.

In conclusion, any of these wills are valid in Idaho. I anticipate most wills will continue to be paper wills, witnessed by two witnesses and notarized. Nevertheless, you can choose the type of will that best fits your circumstances.

View our “Senior’s Guide to a Well-Planned Future” on our website! Packer Elder Care Law – with you for life!

Tom Packer is an Elder Law Attorney serving all Southeast Idaho. As part of his law practice, Tom offers Life Care Planning to deal with the challenges created by long-term illness, disability and incapacity. If you have a question about a Senior’s legal, financial or healthcare needs, please call us.

April 2024

Making your Will Work

Tip – It’s vital that you take care of the original Will.

One thing to consider after you have prepared your Will is this—where do I keep it? If you have taken the time and made the effort to plan for the future by having a Will, it makes sense to do a couple of important things. It is vital that you take care of the original Will, and that the person who will act as your Personal Representative knows exactly where it is. Too many times, the Personal
Representative is forced to look all through the house trying to find the original Will, or worse yet, resort to calling local law offices to see if they might have it.

Many people think that if you have a Will, you don’t have to probate. This is a misconception. When you have a Will, the person you named as your Personal Representative must file your Will with the Court and be appointed as your Personal Representative. If your Personal Representative has your original Will, the Court uses an informal probate process, which in Idaho is quick and simple. However, if the original Will cannot be located, and your Personal Representative submits a copy of the Will, the Court will use a formal probate process, which entails many more steps and costs more money. In the formal probate process heirs are notified, a Court Hearing is held, and the heirs have the burden of establishing the facts to prove that the Will is valid or invalid.

In a formal probate process, the Court may determine that a copy of a Will is valid if the proceeding is unopposed. However, if the Court determines that the Will is not valid, the property in the estate will then be distributed according to the laws of the State of Idaho—not the terms of the Will. In that case, the property of the deceased may go to persons that he or she did not intend for it to go to.

I like to keep a Will in an Estate Planning Binder along with all other legal documents, deeds, information about your property, investments and insurance policies, and instructions to the Personal Representative. However you safeguard your Will, the important thing is to let the person who will be handling your affairs know where it is.

So, when it comes to your original Will, taking care of it will save you a lot of time, money, and headaches.

View our “Senior’s Guide to a Well-Planned Future” on our website! Packer Elder Care Law – with you for life!

Tom Packer is an Elder Law Attorney serving all Southeast Idaho. As part of his law practice, Tom offers Life Care Planning to deal with the challenges created by long-term illness, disability and incapacity. If you have a question about a Senior’s legal, financial or healthcare needs, please call us.

March 2024

Staying Physically Active

Tip –There are many enjoyable ways to remain active.

In an article by the American Heart Association, it states, “There are many reasons why staying active is one of the best things you can do to keep your body healthy—no matter what your age. It can also improve your overall wellbeing and quality of life.”

“The idea is to move more and sit less. Every minute of moderate to vigorous activity is helpful. You don’t have to make big changes to see the benefits. Staying active helps delay or prevent chronic illnesses and diseases associated with aging. You can start by building more activity into your day, one step at a time.” (American Heart Association,” Healthy for Good”)

We all know walking is a great way to get moving. There is nothing better than a nature ‘walk and talk’ with a friend. Senior Centers often offer exercise classes and trip opportunities. I have gotten hooked on Chair Volleyball, offered at the Blackfoot Senior Center. Each team has 6 players with the players sitting on chairs and volleying a beachball across a low net. People in wheelchairs love to
participate. We play twice a week on Mondays and Wednesdays at 9:00 AM. Chair volleyball gives us the opportunity to stay active, have fun, and connect with friends, helping us to feel happier and less stressed. We welcome all who would like to join us!

In Southeast Idaho, every year Pocatello hosts the “Senior Games.” This is designed with the goal of staying active in mind! This takes place every July, and it includes a variety of competitive, friendly events you can choose to be a part of. Basketball, tennis, pickleball, and chair volleyball are just a few of them. Chair Volleyball was a new event last year in the Pocatello Senior Games and is
spreading to other Senior Centers in the area.

If you want to improve your quality of life—stay active. Consider finding something you enjoy, and like the Nike motto says: “Just do it.”

View our “Senior’s Guide to a Well-Planned Future” on our website! Packer Elder Care Law – with you for life!

Tom Packer is an Elder Law Attorney serving all Southeast Idaho. As part of his law practice, Tom offers Life Care Planning to deal with the challenges created by long-term illness, disability and incapacity. If you have a question about a Senior’s legal, financial or healthcare needs, please call us.

February 2024

Powerful Tools for Caregivers

Tip – Caregivers may use available resources for help and support.

Being a caregiver can be a wonderful blessing, as well as a tremendous challenge. It can give you a new perspective on life and help you to love others more fully. It also shows those you care for the love that still exists in the world. On the other hand, being a caregiver requires things that are difficult—like merging schedules, constantly putting someone else first, and dealing with their struggles, pains, and emotions, while keeping your own in check.

One of the services Packer Elder Care Law provides is to connect people who have a need to the resources that can help and support them. Thankfully, there are resources to go to for help, both online and in person. Many resources are free and have various time schedules. Some of these resources include joining a support group or taking a class to learn how to be a better caregiver and how to take care of yourself at the same time. These resources can teach you effective ideas such as teaming up with someone—like a family member or a friend—so that the time, energy, and responsibility in caring for someone is shared.

The Pocatello Area Agency on Aging is offering a class, free of charge, for anyone who would like to attend. The classes are held every Wednesday, starting January 24 — February 28, 2024. The same class is given twice a day – one from 2:00- 3:30pm, and one from 7:00-8:30pm. Here is a list of the classes that are being taught:

Jan 24
1. Taking Care of You

Jan 31
2. Identifying & Reducing Personal Stress

Feb 7
3. Communicating Feelings, Needs, & Concerns

Feb 14
4. Communicating in Challenging Situations

Feb 21
5. Learning from our Emotions

Feb 28
6. Mastering Caregiving Decisions

The classes are held virtually, via Zoom, and each class has handouts as well as a
Caregiver’s Help Book.

The class is sponsored by grants through the Area Agency on Aging and is taught by Ann Harrild and Jamie Ramsayer. For more information on the class and how to register, call or text Ann Harrild at 208-530-0844, or call the Pocatello Area Agency on Aging at 208-233-4032.

Here is a flyer on the classes being offered.

P.S. Disregard the incorrect year of 2023.

View our “Senior’s Guide to a Well-Planned Future” on our website! Packer Elder Care Law – with you for life!

Tom Packer is an Elder Law Attorney serving all Southeast Idaho. As part of his law practice, Tom offers Life Care Planning to deal with the challenges created by long-term illness, disability and incapacity. If you have a question about a Senior’s legal, financial or healthcare needs, please call us.

January 2024

Estate Planning for Blended Families

Tip – Planning for your spouse and children in a second marriage.

Question: What happens after a second marriage if you die without a will or trust
in place?

Answer: Under Idaho Code § 15-2-102 your half of the community property (property you acquire during your marriage to your spouse) would pass to your surviving spouse and one-half of your separate property (property you bring into your marriage or receive as a gift) would pass to your spouse and one-half would pass to your children.

In addition, Idaho Code § 15-2-402 and Idaho Code § 15-2-403 provides that your surviving spouse may be entitled to a Homestead allowance of $50,000 and an Exempt property allowance of $10,000 respectively. These allowances can be taken by your spouse from property in your estate before any distributions are made to the persons you have designated in your will to receive your property.

You can see that in a second marriage, if you do not have a will or trust, the bulk of your estate could go to your spouse, and not to your children. Rather than letting the laws of the state determine how your estate is distributed, it makes sense to have an estate plan to distribute your property to whom you want it to go.

No matter who you decide to leave your property to, you need to make sure your wishes are clear and binding. Avoiding the misunderstandings and fights that can come from a lack of planning is maybe the best gift you can give your spouse and children.

View our “Senior’s Guide to a Well-Planned Future” on our website! Packer Elder Care Law – with you for life!

Tom Packer is an Elder Law Attorney serving all Southeast Idaho. As part of his law practice, Tom offers Life Care Planning to deal with the challenges created by long-term illness, disability and incapacity. If you have a question about a Senior’s legal, financial or healthcare needs, please call us.

December 2023